Tyler Adams

Goodpain Season 02 Episode No. 02 – Becoming a Real Man & The Roles We Learn

This week we explore our own encounters with how traditional expectations both elevate and imprison, leading to breakdown before breakthrough. The conversation explores: “What expectations about manhood did you inherit that nobody taught you how to actually embody?” “When have you felt most trapped by the very roles that were supposed to give you strength…

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Holiday Special Episode: Interview with Gabrielle Martin – “Hold My Hand, Mama”

This week Tiffany and Tyler sit down with the author of Hold My Hand, Mama, A touching story that walks readers through the circle of life from a daughter’s first steps to her mother’s last and beyond. Gabrielle was the recipient of the Mom’s Choice Awards® Gold and shares her story with Goodpain and what…

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Goodpain Season 02 Episode No. 01 – Introduction to Masculine & Role of Initiation

Jeremy and Tyler open Season 02 of Goodpain with an overarching discussion of masculinity, how they arrived at the topic and introduce the importance of Initiation Rites, and what happens in their absence. The discussion moves from Aboriginal Australia to sub-saharan Africa for wisdom involving of masculine energy. Ultimately, Jeremy & Tyler share their own…

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Sparks + Embers Episode No. 019: Community as a Flowing Gift & Civic Duty

We’ve reduced civic duty to voting, but community emerges from deliberate cultivation of beliefs, attitudes, and rituals practiced between solitude and collective life. Community isn’t manufactured through programs or proximity. It emerges when we practice civic arts we’ve abandoned: endurance, gratitude, and fierce presence.

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Sparks + Embers Episode No. 018 – Community Series Prologue: The 9 Problems Undermining Community Foundations

The patterns that destroy community aren’t random failures or unfortunate side effects. They’re the logical result of certain assumptions about value, scale, efficiency, and human nature – assumptions so embedded in modern life that they’re nearly invisible. We’ve built systems that systematically undermine the very conditions that make community possible, all while telling ourselves we’re…

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When the Architecture Collapses: How We Undermine the Foundations of Community

Listen to the companion Sparks + Embers episode for this Kindling feature article below. A Problem Definition Framework for How WE Have Undermined Foundations of Community Introduction There’s a question we don’t ask often enough: Why do we come together in the first place? Not the practical reasons – to trade goods, to share resources,…

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Sparks + Embers Episode No. 017: Apprenticeship Wisdom & Series Wrap

In this final installment of the Apprenticeship Model for Leadership series, we talk about Generational Maintenance, synthesizing all domains for lifelong practice within a framework of intellectual humility and twenty-year thinking. We also introduce the model for our next series, the Northern Arapaho’s Four Hills of Life Movement. In this context we use the model…

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The Endless Season of Bridge-Building: Apprenticeship Wisdom for Lifelong Leadership Development

Listen to the companion Sparks + Embers episode for this Kindling feature article below. Synthesizing Apprenticeship Wisdom for Leadership Across All Domains The oldest living bridges in Meghalaya are estimated at 500 years old. Morningstar Khongthaw tends structures planted by ancestors fifteen generations ago. When asked how long these bridges last, he offers something that…

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Sparks + Embers Episode No. 016: Apprenticeship from Natural Wisdom, On Forgetting and Remembering

Different cultures have developed sophisticated approaches to leadership, mentorship, and wisdom transmission that may conflict with Western apprenticeship models. The challenge is learning from diverse traditions without imposing our frameworks or appropriating sacred practices. The bridge-builders themselves face this as they share knowledge with global researchers while maintaining the cultural integrity of their practices, in…

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Apprenticing to Natural Wisdom: 6 Ways We Forget & 6 Ways We Must Remember How to Live

Listen to the companion Sparks + Embers episode for this Kindling feature article below. Natural Wisdom: What Living Root Bridges Reveal About Leadership That Lasts When Every River Needs Crossing Ferdinand Ludwig stands in a forest in Meghalaya, measuring the diameter of living root bridges with instruments designed for conventional architecture. The professor from Technical…

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